Relatives mourn at ND pond where women found dead
By BLAKE NICHOLSON
DICKINSON, N.D. (AP) - Teammates and family members threw roses and
softballs Wednesday into the farm pond where three North Dakota college
softball players were found dead inside their sunken sport utility vehicle.
But there were few answers to their most troublesome questions: How did the
women find themselves trapped in the water? How long did they suffer after
frantically calling friends for help?
``I can't believe that my baby is gone. I miss her terribly. I'm just
wondering ... What went through her mind while she was still alive in her last
moment?'' said Claire Gemar, of San Diego, whose 22-year-old daughter, Kyrstin,
was among the three Dickinson State University students pulled from the small
pond after signals from the phone calls helped lead authorities to the farm.
No foul play is suspected in the deaths Gemar; Afton Williamson, 20, of Lake
Elsinore, Calif.; and Ashley Neufeld, 21, of Brandon, Manitoba. The bodies of
the women and Neufeld's dog were found inside the SUV Tuesday.
The women were believed to be on a stargazing trip Sunday night and
authorities said they likely drove straight into the water in the dark. The
pond is surrounded by high grass and shrubs off a narrow gravel road in a
pasture north of Dickinson.
``In our minds, all of us have been reliving what we think they probably
went through,'' said Gemar's father, Lenny.
Senior softball player Jody Lantz of St. Walburg, Saskatchewan, said she and
fellow students came to the pond Wednesday ``to understand it a little more,
wrap our heads around it.''
``It's going to be weird going onto the field and knowing that they're never
going to be there,'' Lantz said.
Stark County Sheriff Clarence Tuhy said the women's SUV was found resting on
its wheels Tuesday in about 10 feet of water with the doors and windows closed.
``When you're not familiar with an area like that it would have been very
easy to drive into'' the pond, Tuhy said. The sheriff said the students were on
private property. He stopped short of saying they were trespassing.
The students were believed to be in the 1997 Jeep Cherokee when two of their
friends received telephone calls late Sunday before the lines quickly went
dead. Police described the first as a ``very scratchy'' call for help in which
one of the students said they were near water.
Tuhy said the calls, which authorities were able to track to cell phone
towers, were critical in leading searchers to the vehicle. He said it wasn't
clear if emergency crews might have been able to reach the women had they
called 911 instead of their friends.
Police Lt. Rod Banyai said authorities do not expect autopsy results for a
week or two. The autopsies will help determine the exact cause of death and
whether the women were under the influence of drugs or alcohol. Authorities
have said there is no indication they were. The North Dakota Highway Patrol
also will examine the Jeep to determine if the vehicle malfunctioned, Banyai
said.
Dickinson State University President Richard McCallum said classes were
canceled Wednesday and a memorial service was scheduled on the 2,700-student
campus Thursday. The Dickinson State staff distributed ribbons in school colors
- dark blue and silver - in memory of the three students.
The university listed Gemar as a senior business major who played third base
on the softball team. Neufeld was a senior outfielder working on a psychology
degree, and Williamson, a junior, was a pitcher majoring in psychology with a
minor in coaching.
``I have so many unanswered questions and thoughts,'' softball coach Kristen
Fleury said.
Claire Gemar said Wednesday that she talked to her daughter Sunday afternoon
and she could hear her two friends in the background. When she told her
daughter goodbye, she remembered, ``I said, 'Be safe.' She said, 'I will.'''
The Gemars said they hoped the women's deaths would remind people the
importance of knowing their surroundings and letting others know where they
are. In the meantime, Lenny Gemar said he knows where he daughter is now.
``We threw out last pitches to each of the girls,'' he said of the gathering
at the pond. ``That heavenly softball team someplace where we hope that they
all are. We know they hit them out of the park.''
11/04/09 20:05
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